How To Be Your Own Best Friend And Lead A Life That Will Make You Happy

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Subjects like this should be discussed more often, as people actually need this kind of information even though they are not aware that they do. For that reason, I will try to give you some practical information that you can use to be your own best friend and stop leading a destructive way of living. Nevertheless, it is a destructive way of living that we follow which makes our life an unhappy one, and sadly enough, we don't even know what is it that we do that makes us feel that way.
That is why following few tips will help you better understand yourself and hopefully help you overcome some of the destructive tendencies and misuse of power of will:
1. First of all, we must understand that we find ourselves in unpleasant situations simply because we attract such situations in our life, and we find ourselves in pleasant situations also because we attract such situations in our life. How? With our own thoughts. Our mind is constantly filled with various thoughts and we are barely aware about 5% of them. By learning to listen to your thoughts more carefully and directing them onto desired subjects, you will also learn how to attract desired situations to your life more easily.
2. Try to be aware about your actions. Are all your actions conscious and the way you want them to be or do you run on autopilot? Most commonly, we are also aware only about 5% of our actions, and the rest is happening without our full awareness. Try to think before you act, and do that all the time. This will slow down your tempo while at the same time allow you to filter through your intentions and see which intentions will bring you good things and which intentions will only hurt others and you.
3. Many times things in our life don't work the way we want them to and honestly, it is 100% our own fault. It was our choices and our way of thinking as well as actions that we didn't take that brought us such situations in our life. But what is done is done and can only be improved from there on.
If you feel that your life doesn't quite work the way you want it to, don't be alarmed but rather realize that you obviously don't think and act in accordance to your desires, which brings you all kinds of stuff that you like and stuff that you don't like. The only thing you can do is to accept the fact that it was you who created such life for yourself and that it is you who have all the power to recreate it the way you want it to.
You shouldn't be afraid of that creative power in you, because you use it all the time, only that you are not aware about it. By being aware about that power, you will be able to think and act in accordance to your deepest desires and create the life that you truly want to see.
Those were just three simple tips you should follow to be your own best friend and lead a life that your heart aces for. There is no use to live in abundance if you don't know how to listen to your heart and don't take proper actions to make your dreams come true.
We have everything we need and we should use that abundance in a positive way to create a beautiful life for ourselves. Remember to think before you act and be aware about your intentions. Only that way you can avoid situations that would bring you sorrow and intentionally go in the situations that will bring you joy.

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